Relationships in “Presence”

The ‘balm’ of existence is undoubtedly the passion between the sexes. A fulfillment of one’s time on Earth passes through an enthralling natural blending of one’s physical, emotional and thinking persona with a discovered one of the opposite sex. I would argue that there is another component, which is elusive to many but is so key that the other parts of our persona become almost trivial. This component is one of ‘Presence’ or inner metaphysical energy. Only when one has approached a harmony with existence can they subliminally encounter the ‘soulmate’ or just ‘union’.
For the more cartesian amongst us this inner energy can be felt by taking your attention within. To what is subtle but more apparent then the brightest of stars. When people meet without ‘Presence’ they are in fact impaired in their encounter. Each one brings Ego, identified patterns of behavior (led mostly by the unconscious) and prejudgments of what the ‘correct’ behavior from the other has to be. Pour into this combustible mix the thinking minds created rules for the need to format coupling then we have a lonely, confused & ultimately frustrated sector of the population.
The mass of advice from relationship gurus, psychobabble experts and genuinely misguided if well intentioned people has complicated an already overwhelming mess.
So what is the way forward? Subliminate yourself and you will resonate at a higher and natural level. The absolute momentum on Earth towards imperative blending of its creatures will accomplish the rest. Fulfillment will occur. There is no ’rule’ book which you can learn by rote that will fit every situation. This is highly unsustainable.
What is sustainable is what does not need sustaining. Your true being. Discarding through practice the shell of yourself and society created pseudo being and you will come closer to peace. The unfettered essence which is that which will gravitate with subtle confirmation to the elected partner. Beyond you this will occur. The YOU fought with over thought, mis-experienced and isolated from universal belonging will not be able to harmonize or even recognize natural love. Love yourself and you will be loved is only part of the process.
Be love is the ultimate part of the tuning with existence to the other which is needed.
Ayub takes us through this inner journey where this process brings the natural positives in your life and your relationships. He explains how to discard the identified electron of Ego when meeting others. A platform of communication is possible as acceptance flows. The universe will blend similar resonating ‘beings’ to fulfill the puzzle of love. This energy will discard the unnatural & recognize it’s alter-essence.
Its fusion will occur mystically…